MAKE HIM DESIRE YOU
You must be thinking - Wait a minute! How can discomfort be positive and why would I want to make a guy uncomfortable?
Well, there is an age old psychological concept
Now I am not saying that you should play hard to get and make him run after you. That concept is a myth and can actually turn a guy completely off.
What I am talking about is a cocktail of pleasure and discomfort mixed in together. It basically means that you make him feel 90% pleasure mixed with 10% discomfort.
This cocktail creates an intense sense of passion within a man’s body that is just hard to control.
This tunes up his emotional intensity towards you and he feels this hot, raw and intense love for you which is addictive and almost irreplaceable.
In fact, this concept works so well that he will actually enjoy chasing you and will get a special kind of feeling which will get him addicted to pursuing you.
I know it sounds weird right now, but I’ll show you a super easy way to put it into action soon. But before that, let me get to our second step.
Step 2 - Re-frame his point of view…
Have you ever seen a guy who went completely nuts over a certain girl even though she wasn’t that good looking or smart and did you find yourself thinking - What does he see in her? She isn’t even that special.
The important point to note here is that in your point of view, she might not be that attractive or special but that specific guy is seeing her through a completely different lens. He is seeing things in her that you might not see at all.
Now the good news is that you can use re-framing to change a guy’s views about you, and make him find you absolutely attractive, irresistible and exceptionally special even if you aren’t that good looking, skinny or smart.
You see, by making small easy adjustments in your personality, you can make a guy think that you are one of the most interesting women he’s ever come across, and not only that, you can actually make him see you as this special, one in a million woman he would be lucky to have in his life.
I’ll soon show you a super easy method to re-frame his view of you completely, and establish yourself as his only and best possible choice. But before that, let me give you the 3rd and final step.
Step 3 - Appeal to the masculine part of him.
Every guy is born with a protector instinct, his job in the “early man days” used to be to protect the family from predators.
If you can awaken the masculine part of a man completely, he would feel a gut level desire to protect you and do nice things for you.
Once this part awakens, he will go out of his way to do loving things for you and will even feel obligated and responsible for your well being. In fact, this is one of the most little known secrets to truly making a man fall in love with you.
Most women feel that in order to get a man to love them, they should do a lot of nice things, dress sexy etc, but the reality is that, all that can actually repulse him.
Since every man is a born hunter, he is a provider at his very core and he will feel a lot of pleasure when you let him take care of you by appealing to the masculine part of him.
Now you must be thinking - Alright I understand that I have to trigger a sense of positive discomfort in his mind, re-frame his point of view and awaken the masculine part of him but I am still a little confused because I don’t know exactly what to do. Good question, here is the answer - Follow this link...
2 Weird ways to make him feel impulsive love for you
Step 1 - Become emotionally in-tune with him.
If you ever want a man to feel a deep intense, almost addictive love for you, then you need to become emotionally in-tune with him.
What do I mean when I say emotionally in-tune?
I basically mean that you have to connect with the emotional part of his mind rather than the logical part.
Most women don’t get this; in fact, most women dress sexy, cook great meals and try to logically convince a man to like them. But that doesn’t work because they’re missing the most important element of the puzzle. That element is “EMOTION”.
Have you ever seen a woman who can make any guy go absolutely crazy for her and do the dumbest and sometimes even embarrassing things to please her?
And at the same time have you ever seen a woman who does everything right, yet she is never able to get the love or attention she desperately desires from her man?
What is the difference between the two?
The woman in my first example understands the critical concept of becoming emotionally in-tune with a man and as a result, she is able to make a
man literally dance to her tunes, while most women try really hard yet struggle.
Bottom line is that you will always struggle with men unless you become emotionally in-tune with them, if you don’t get this, then you are only spinning your wheels without getting anywhere.
I’ll show you a ridiculously easy way to do it in a moment, but before that let me give you the second step.
Step 2 - Establish yourself as a valuable asset in his mind.
Why are diamonds so valuable? Is it because they look pretty? Is it because they’re expensive? The fact is, diamonds are valuable because they’re rare and not easy to acquire. They’re perceived as something very valuable.
In order to make a guy go almost nuts about you, you need to present yourself as a super valuable asset, exactly like a diamond.
You need to position yourself in a way, that he would be absolutely scared to lose you and would even fight to keep you for as long as possible.
You see, something weird gets triggered inside a man when he knows that you’re this valuable asset.
His animalistic instinct awakens and he feels a strong inner drive to protect you, fight for you and never let you go.
Every guy is a born hunter, they all have a hunter instinct embedded deep within their subconscious mind and this only awakens when a woman presents herself as this special prize to be won.
During this process, a man can’t help but act on this instinct and will chase you as hard as humanly possible.
In fact, he will feel absolutely lucky to have you around him and will even value whatever time and attention he gets from you.
So now you must be wondering, how do I do it? Here is how, follow this link...